“Every experience brings out
something good. Times become good memories, bad times become good lessons. We
never lose we only gain from life.” After I have watched the video, this was
the thing that was instilled in my mind. I found Steve simple but blessed with extraordinary
charm. But why charm? He is a risk taker. He does whatever he feels
disregarding what others may say. That is exactly what I admired about him. He lived
his life following his heart and intuition. As I go along with my blog, let me share
the statements he had that really caught me.
His first story is about connecting
the dots. “You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect
them looking backwards.” That was such a quote that you would really ponder. For
it is true, that every time we make decisions, we do not exactly know where
that would head us, for life is full of uncertainties. When we make decisions,
we have to be man enough to face the consequences that it may bring. We have to
trust ourselves that every step we take would lead us to the place where we
really wanted. He also made me realize that in every action we do, we have to
follow our heart. I find that wise. If we do follow our heart, we won’t have
regrets wherever we end up. He reiterated that we have to make a difference. A famous
man once said, be the change you wish to see. If you wanted to change the
things you do not like, you have the power to change it. Remember that the
change you wanted is just in your hands.
Steve’s second story was love and
loss. “Its awful tasting the medicine, but I guess the patient needed it”. There
are instances where we learn better if we had it the hard way. We tend to take
things for granted if these things were in us. However, when the time comes
that these things were gone, we realize their value. It makes me remember the quote
“everything happens for a reason”. God gives us challenges to see the beauty of
what we have. Therefore, we have to cherish whatever we have now. Our family,
friends and our loved ones are the reasons why we have to be thankful. Let us
value them by letting them feel they are loved, cared and remembered. If you
have the opportunity now to hug and kiss them, you better do it now. Remember that
once these people are lost, they are lost forever.
If I were to sum all the things I got
from Steve Jobs that would be being simply human. Man naturally commits
mistake. That’s given! But we are responsible on how to make these mistakes as
our strength. Life is a roller coaster of learning. It’s actually up to us if
we will ride with it, go with the flow or go against it. Well, in the end, we
are the ones driving our own journey. Let’s just live with it and savor every
dish that life offers.